FIVE QUESTIONS/for KERRY J.
SULKOWICZ
As Many Ways to Grieve as There
Are Desks in the Office
By JONATHAN D. GLATER
Published on September 16, 2001
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this article in nytimes.com ››
Tomorrow, many people
will be returning to work for the first time since
last week's terrorist attack, and they will be carrying
the burden of the horrible things they have seen on
television or perhaps in person. The psychological
state of employees affects how they approach work,
and how managers handle the situation can make the
adjustment easier or harder.
Dr. Kerry J. Sulkowicz, a psychiatrist, runs
a small management consulting firm that has advised companies
coping with difficult transitions. As a volunteer, he counseled
employees, family members and friends at the crisis center set
up by Cantor Fitzgerald, an investment firm that may have lost
several hundred employees in one of the World Trade Center towers.
Q. What are the challenges
when employees return?
A. There is a sense of disbelief, a sense of unreality about
what has happened. People may appear disconnected emotionally
from events. That may be translated into people looking spaced
out, very anxious, fearful, easily startled, depressed or sad
and tearful. People may develop substance abuse problems or such
problems may worsen, and some people may engage in suicidal or
self-destructive behavior.
Another common thing that people ought to be
alert to is physical symptoms, whether that's gastrointestinal
problems, diarrhea, insomnia, headaches or other aches and pains.
Another reaction may be denial -- people may think they can go
back to business as usual, and that is false. This is not business
as usual.
It is crucially important to allow people, if
they wish, the time and the space to talk about their feelings,
about how they are processing this experience. And this doesn't
need to be done just once, because people are going to be reacting
to this in their own individual ways for a long time to come,
and I mean weeks and months. One meeting on Monday is not going
to be enough. That's just a start.
Q. How can employers reassure and
motivate workers?
A. It is reasonable to say, ''We are doing everything we can
to ensure the security of our company, or our office building,
or whatever the environment is, and we are going to cooperate
with all of the authorities in beefing up security or whatever
is necessary.'' We don't want to be in a state of denial.
The leaders in organizations need to set the
example both in terms of trying to resume work in as regular
a way as possible but also to set the example that resuming work
and trying to return to productivity is inconsistent with trying
to deal with emotional pain this has caused.
I would try to have high expectations of employees,
but reasonable expectations. What's reasonable? I don't know
-- nobody has been through this before. I don't think it's a
matter of managers having to really push all that hard to get
employees to work hard, because most will want to return to work.
It makes them feel more productive and counters feelings of helplessness
that so many people feel.
Q. Should employers set up volunteer
drives?
A. A volunteer drive is an excellent idea for several reasons
beyond the obvious -- the obvious being that there are a lot
of people who need help. It also helps the employees who were
not directly affected to feel like they're doing something useful
and active, rather than being passive.
Anybody who was not directly affected is susceptible
to feeling guilt that they survived and others didn't, so doing
something active, whether it's making donations or donating food,
services or blood, helps address that feeling.
Q. How can employers prevent discrimination
against Arab-Americans or Muslims?
A. It's normal to be angry at what happened and to look for somebody
to blame. If people express anger, I wouldn't in any way want
to squelch that.
On the other hand, managers should discourage
an angry moblike response that labels entire ethnic or religious
groups as responsible. If that happens, somebody needs to express
the voice of reason and say that these are terrible people who
did very terrible, awful things. We don't know who, but it's
certainly not a race. It's a group of people, it's a highly organized
group of terrorists, but not an entire ethnic group. That distinction
needs to be made clear.
Q. How tolerant should supervisors
be when workers say they are unable to work?
A. Very tolerant. I wouldn't let the conversation end there,
but this is really hard on people. This is trauma of the biggest
sort, and I would not respond cynically to anyone saying that
they feel incapacitated.
People's reaction to trauma is determined by
their personality and life experiences prior to the trauma. Two
people at adjacent desks may experience what happened completely
differently.
Someone who has experienced trauma early in
life or someone who has a pre-existing mental illness may be
more vulnerable. Managers may not know about that kind of history.
If someone needs help, they should get it. There
are lots of mental health professionals in New York City who
are doing amazing things right now; that help is available.
It may be helpful to bring mental health workers
to talk to groups of people on site. Employers should not hold
back on providing these support services, or else the consequences
will be very severe in the long run, in terms of long-term mental
health problems. This is not a time to scrimp.
Correction: September
23, 2001, Sunday Because of an editing error, the Five Questions
column last Sunday, an interview with Dr. Kerry J. Sulkowicz,
a psychiatrist who advises companies on difficult workplace transitions,
omitted a phrase in his comment about employers' handling of
worker anxiety after the terrorist attacks of Sept. 11. He said
leaders needed to ''set the example that resuming work and trying
to return to productivity is not in any way inconsistent with
trying to deal with the emotional pain this has caused''; he
did not say ''is inconsistent.''
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